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social emotional learning in STEM

Working together as kids is hard. Like really hard!

My biggest struggle when I started in this position as the school STEM teacher was getting kids to successfully work together! 

And the STRUGGLE WAS REAL!

We, as adults, know that personality conflicts are the number one reason why teamwork can be so hard.  


Children don't really understand that and just think their teammates are being mean to them.  Now, that can be the case sometimes, but for the most part, it just boils down to having enough patience to deal with people who have a personality that conflicts with your own. 


So how do you fix this?  Well, there's no 'fixing it' per se, but we can give students insight and strategies for dealing with it. 

Start building self-awareness from kindergarten

You've just got to put it out there - workin' together ain't easy, kids!

 Let them know that it's normal to have conflicts in groups, but it's how you handle the conflicts that matter. 


Young children need to be taught how to understand their feelings, that all feelings are ok to feel, and how to handle these uncomfortable feelings so they can be productive teammates. There are a lot of amazing social-emotional learning books out there to help you get the conversation started.  

Two of my favorite social-emotional learning book series

social emotional learning book
social emotional learning book

Dealing with Feelings & tackling Teamwork

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There are also some amazing read alouds out there for building teamwork!


 

Collaboration Station (The Classroom Community Collection)  By Shannon Olsen 


Boxitects By Kim Smith


Teamwork Isn't My Thing, and I Don't Like to Share By Julia Cook


A Little Spot Series

social emotional learning book

I really like sharing this book with my 1st gradce kiddos because it explains HOW to work together and also gives examples. I use this book to help us create class criteria for teamwork.

Teamwork Anchor chart

Teamwork Anchor chart

elementary social emotional learning focused on teamwork in STEM

Here's a look at one of our teamwork anchor charts from 2nd grade.  We built it together as a class and added to it as we encountered needs for additions.  


Putting Teamwork criteria to the test

 I give my students very simplistic design challenges to tackle together, zooming in on one piece of our anchor chart at a time.   We chat about what that piece should look like, then we jump into practice and reflection!  We will even add new ideas as they arise during team challenges.


Want to see examples?  Swing by my 1st Grade & 2nd Grade pages!


Need resources?  Look below!

Grab a copy of my TeamWork Canva Slides, Coloring Book, & Assessments bundle

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Canva Slides

Introduce HOW to work together

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Coloring book

Printable Canva coloring book

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Reflect & Assess

Kid-friendly Assessments

dive deeper with the older kiddos

Understanding personality conflicts

At this age, students may know that they and certain other students struggle to work together, but do they know why?  It's all about PERSONALITIES!


The Enneagram Assessment is an excellent resource for helping students identify their personality type!  Giving this simple quiz can not only help students determine their own personality type, but it opens their eyes to the various personality types that exist. 


Allow students to explore their personality type and the others' to see what conflicts they may have with other personality types and why.  


Have students brainstorm how they can show patience and understanding when they have to work with teammates with conflicting personalities. 


Build team contracts that remind and reinforce teamwork expectations. 

grab some "big kid" teamwork resources

Self-grading enneagram assessment

Self-grading enneagram assessment

Self-grading enneagram assessment

social emotional learning with enneagram personality assessment

This is a self-grading version that I use in my classroom.  It makes for a quick, easy way to determine your students' personality types.

Enneagram Personality Posters

Self-grading enneagram assessment

Self-grading enneagram assessment

enneagram personality posters

These kid friendly-posters give at-a-glance information about strengths and challenges of each personality type. 

Team contracts

Self-grading enneagram assessment

social emotional learning with team personalities and team contract forms

 Teams recognize the various personality types within their group, then leverage the strengths and challenges associated with each type to create a team contract. 

enneagram bundle

social emotional learning in elementary STEM resource bundle

This bundle includes all of my Enneagram resources!

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